Celebrating Life
Most of the time, the loss of a loved one is a time of mourning, sorrow and questioning. But often times, we look at this painful time as celebration of life and legacy that he/she has impacted on our lives. We celebrate the love and memory of our loss to carry us through this difficult time.
Todd’s in-law family has gathered together to pay respects to the loss of a loving uncle, brother and man, Dean. Because of this loss, we are again reminded of how valuable every moment of life is, how precious loved ones are to our daily breath and how we should celebrate each passing minute that we have with each other.
After several days of intense funeral planning and estate organization, the family took a much needed break from the chaotic week. We all decided to visit the tidepools at Crystal Cove State Park, hoping to find ocean life lurking behind the rocky crevices of the seawater filled pools. This refreshing get away exposed us to beautiful life brimming and basking in the warm sunshine: barnacles, sea anemones, mussels, sea snails, crabs and starfish, all living a glorious life in this unique ocean habitat.
Everyone found their special place along the beach and at the tidepools. The kids played in the water, dug in the sand and chased miniature crabs in the tidepools. The adults took in a deep breath of the ocean air and found peace in the crashing waves, the beautiful sights of birds skimming the water and life inside the rocky pools.
Both Todd and I photographed and shot video footage of each special moment and indulged ourselves in the beautiful, gorgeous and healing sunset. This evening was a celebration of family, friendship, love and life.
So sorry for your loss. I hope the memories of Todd’s uncle will soften the grief. Good to remember to hug someone today!
what a lovely post. the tidepools look gorgeous. i’m really sorry for your loss of your uncle.
so sorry for your loss. wonderful tribute. thanks for the reminder…
I love to go to the tidepools. You see so many interesting and wonderful things down there.
Beautiful
My deepest symphaties to you for the loss of Dean and what a beautiful way to celebrate life. Loved the post, beautiful words!
I will hug someone I love. *Hug* That beach is beautiful and so were your thoughts and photos. Thanks for sharing that with us.
Great post. Beautiful pictures. Wise words.
I think seeking nature in those times makes sense because it reminds us that life is always renewing itself (in many ways). I hug you guys, and send my best wishes to Todd’s family.
I’m sorry, sweeties. Loss is never easy, but it looks like you all know what to do. It looks like you know what is important. I love the pic of Todd smiling. Big hugs to both of you (and nice verticals!). xxoo and extra xxoos.
Sorry to hear about Todds uncle.
I totally agree one should celebrate and enjoy the family and freinds as often as one can.
Having also experienced a loss last month you have my deepest sympathies. The ocean is a beautiful and joyful way to celebrate life and feel spiritually refreshed. Thank you for sharing the touching photos and story.
My deepest sympathies to you and your family. I understand only too well the pain of losing a loved one. What a lovely way to celebrate Dean’s life!
A lovely tribute to the spirit of Todd’s uncle. My thoughts are with you both at this difficult time.
How lucky Dean was to have you both in his life. Beautiful tribute.
My deepest sympathies. You’ve left a touching tribute for all to see.